I was reading about this idea only an hour ago in Tolle’s book, A New Earth. The “just the way I am” is only a very rigid structure put in place to protect our ego, our belief system. Once that structure is dissolved, our mind can begin to expand, and in that expansion, we find tranformation. It is that expansion that perhaps one day will become no-mind.

You posted this at just the right moment for me, Dana. Thank you.